There was a time when romance meant roses. We're talking explosive floral arrangements that blew you away. But relationships today are so nuanced. They can also be surface level. But it might mean sending the guy you're talking to a meme.
But there's something incredibly beautiful about the simple things like sending a text that says: "this reminded me of you."
Or, even the shared playlist that you've created together when asking each other what new songs to listen to. It's in the way they remember how you like your tea. And the random moments of saying, "hey, you, hope you're having a good random Tuesday."
Welcome to the era of the Micro-Mance.
The micro-mance isn’t showy. It’s not curated for social media or followed by a bouquet. It’s just simply a soft act. Very specific in nature. Most importantly, it's rooted in thoughtfulness, not theatrics.
And for many of us, especially those healing, the micro-mance feels safer. More real. Kind of like an escape away from theatrical expectations. Because when your nervous system is still learning how to feel safe in love again, small gestures land like gold.
Now stick with me here. There is a science behind embracing something small. In a world that is deeply rooted on big energy—big wins, big goals, big emotions—romance is getting smaller. To clarify: we're not settling. We're starting to notice the little things again.
For once... sometimes it's better to think small. We're talking: .the message before a big meeting. The skincare product they remembered you loved. The “how did you sleep?” before the “what are you doing tonight?”
It’s the tiny kindnesses that keep our hearts steady.
So rituals are a beautiful romance. Love isn't always champagne and candlelight. Sometimes, it’s them waiting while you finish your skincare routine. Or sitting on FaceTime while you do your moisturizer—because they like hearing your voice, even when it’s mundane.
Sometimes, it’s sharing a moment of face masking, together.
Yes, maybe I am suggesting that the Function Flow Cleanser is your foreplay. Not sexual. Sensual. Shared. Intimate. The kind of moment that says: “I want to take care of my skin, and I want to do it near you.”
Wouldn't it be lovely when someone just sent you a serum instead of a sext? We underestimate how romantic it is when someone encourages you to rest. When they remind you to drink water. When they drop off your favourite coffee with SPF inside the bag.
This is the era of thoughtful love, my darlings.
Love that cares for your wellness as much as your wit. Love that sees your skin barrier as sacred. Love that knows your beauty routine isn’t vanity, it’s ritual. It’s return. It’s repair. And it all matters.
Because we’ve all been burned by love that was loud but not lasting. Now, we crave love that’s quiet and consistent. And while the world makes noise about diamonds and weekend getaways, you’ll be glowing over someone who asked:
"Did you have time to do your routine tonight?"
And maybe that’s the most romantic thing of all.
** Pair your micro-mance with our quantum mud mask. It's for self-care Sundays with your favourite person.